What’s the best thing about s** (besides orgasms)? There are SO many ways to have it: Upside-down, on the couch, on an airplane, from behind, roughly, gently … the list goes on. Although traditional notions of masculinity (unfairly) assume that all men are dominant in bed, it turns out that IRL, the s** positions men really want are a lot more varied than you might think.
Everyone is different when it comes to s**ual preferences, kinks, fetishes, and turn-ons. And just like how someone’s vagina can affect how they achieve an orgasm, factors like penis size — whether it’s by-the-books large or smaller than average — can significantly impact what positions work best for them. Although penis size is not the most important aspect of s** by a long shot, it definitely comes into play when you’re trying to figure out a position that feels good.
Although there’s a stigma that men prefer rough s** to real intimacy, I knew that in real life, that’s definitely not the case. So in order to figure out what they find s**y in the bedroom, I asked seven cisgender, heteros**ual men, to tell me what position is their absolute favorite. See for yourself how they compare to the s** positions women want most. (And keep in mind that these positions work with two women as well!)